Marriage: 19 Sep 1860, Henry County, TN
Second marriage in Arkansas, but I have no further data
He was the oldest child living at home on 1860 census
CSA46thA.html has his Civil War data.
Used Elijah Steele as name after move to AR. Lawrence County, AR, Reed's Creek township in 1870. Thomas M. apparently changed name to Timothy C.
1870LawARp282a: Elijah Steele, 29 TN, Sarah, 30 TN, Elijah D., 10 TN, Mary F., 7 TN, Thomas M., 4 TN, Martha E., 1 TN, Olive T., 5 mo AR.